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Posted by myrtledog on August 13, 2008, at 12:45:11
I miss my T so much. It is now nearly two weeks since we finished. I so badly want to write or text or ring her and can't do any of those. But the temptation is so there. I have a film of her talking which sometimes helps. I have so many things of hers. I just need contact - I need to make contact, and this is worse than a death because she IS still there but I can't get to her. I wonder what the penalty would be for sending a letter, for ringing to hear her voice. Ouch Ouch Ouch
Posted by sassyfrancesca on August 13, 2008, at 14:36:51
In reply to I miss my T, posted by myrtledog on August 13, 2008, at 12:45:11
Hey, sweetie: Why can't you contact her?
Hugs, Sassy
Posted by myrtledog on August 13, 2008, at 15:35:52
In reply to Re: I miss my T, posted by sassyfrancesca on August 13, 2008, at 14:36:51
Because we've finished - she's retired. *sob*
Posted by healing928 on August 13, 2008, at 16:10:01
In reply to Re: I miss my T, posted by myrtledog on August 13, 2008, at 15:35:52
(((((((((((9myrtledog))))))))))))))
I am so sorry. Did she say you could email or write her?
Posted by myrtledog on August 13, 2008, at 16:36:20
In reply to Re: I miss my T, posted by healing928 on August 13, 2008, at 16:10:01
No, she didn't. And i forgot to ask. We talked about what would happen if I accidently texted her. That she wouldn't reply, because it wouldn't be fair. (I was in the habit of very very regular texting) I know I could write stuff and send it into cyber space etc but it's contact I'm missing, ultimately.
Posted by TherapyGirl on August 13, 2008, at 18:31:49
In reply to I miss my T, posted by myrtledog on August 13, 2008, at 12:45:11
I'm so sorry, Myrtle. And I'm getting ready to be right there with you. My T is on leave for 6-8 weeks after tomorrow's session and will be retiring at the end of 2009. I can't imagine how I'll cope with any of it, although obviously I'm going to try.
Did you two talk about any options for keeping in touch? My T has already agreed that we will stay in phone touch and occasionally have lunch after she retires. It won't be the same, but at least it's something.
I wish I could make this better for both of us. I'm sorry it hurts so much.
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