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Posted by scared on April 29, 2002, at 23:15:13
i, for one, am glad that she's gone - life is much better without her
she couldn't hack it - i believe that she is in hell right now, paying for her sins (suicide)
Posted by Ella on April 30, 2002, at 0:31:42
In reply to better without sar, don't you think?, posted by scared on April 29, 2002, at 23:15:13
It could be that sar is in hell, but she made a positive inpact while in this world. I don't see how you could perfer a world where we are void of even one person who was kind. If all of us who have moments of weakness deserved death I think we'd all be dead.From your recent posts it sounds like you're in you're in your own personal self made hell.
E Mia
Posted by kiddo on April 30, 2002, at 1:33:38
In reply to better without sar, don't you think?, posted by scared on April 29, 2002, at 23:15:13
Many of us on the boards here knew sar, some of us better than others; had conversations, and shared many things. The death of another person, regardless of how it came about, is very painful for the others they left behind.
Please read dr. bob's FAQ on civility, in fact, I cut and pasted them here.
Kiddo
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http://dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civilThe dictionary definition is something like "conducive to civic harmony and welfare", but remember also the mission of this site, support and education, and the golden rule.
Please respect the views of others even if you think they're wrong. Please be sensitive to their feelings even if they hurt yours. Different points of view are fine, and in fact encouraged, but your freedom of speech is limited here. It can be therapeutic to express yourself, but this isn't necessarily the place.
Please don't be sarcastic, joke about death or suicide, suggest that anyone harm themselves or others, jump to conclusions about others or their experiences, post anything that others could take as accusatory, put others down, put pressure on others, use language that might offend others, exaggerate or overgeneralize -- et cetera.
Feedback tends to be more constructive if you put things in terms of what the other person might do better rather than what they did "wrong". And it tends to be more conducive to harmony to talk about how you feel than what someone else did, for example, to use an "I-statement" like "I feel put down by what you said" instead of a "you statement" like "you're so arrogant". But don't just try to disguise the latter as the former, as in "I feel Dr. Bob has gone overboard". :-)
It's fine to give others feedback as long as its constructive.
You can also count to 10. Or just keep your reaction to yourself. Or refer to these virtual pamphlets from university counseling centers on dealing with anger or stress.
Posted by Phil on April 30, 2002, at 6:55:43
In reply to better without sar, don't you think?, posted by scared on April 29, 2002, at 23:15:13
Posted by Phil on April 30, 2002, at 6:56:55
In reply to better without sar, don't you think?, posted by scared on April 29, 2002, at 23:15:13
Posted by tina on April 30, 2002, at 7:58:21
In reply to Without sar » scared, posted by kiddo on April 30, 2002, at 1:33:38
scared is looking for attention. Don't give it.
Posted by Dr. Bob on April 30, 2002, at 8:02:43
In reply to better without sar, don't you think?, posted by scared on April 29, 2002, at 23:15:13
> i, for one, am glad that she's gone - life is much better without her
>
> she couldn't hack it - i believe that she is in hell right now, paying for her sins (suicide)I've asked you to be civil before, so I'm going to block you from posting now.
Bob
PS: Follow-ups regarding posting policies, or complaints about posts, should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration, thanks.
Posted by Dr. Bob on April 30, 2002, at 9:06:20
In reply to Re: Applause for Phil , posted by tina on April 30, 2002, at 7:58:21
> it sounds like you're in you're in your own personal self made hell.
> scared is looking for attention.
It may, as beardedlady says:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20020430/msgs/22889.html
be instinct to respond, but please don't post anything that others could take as accusatory or jump to conclusions about them. For one thing, it escalates the conflict. Thanks,
Bob
PS: Follow-ups regarding posting policies, or complaints about posts, should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration; otherwise, they may be deleted.
Posted by kiddo on April 30, 2002, at 9:10:56
In reply to Re: please be civil » others, posted by Dr. Bob on April 30, 2002, at 9:06:20
Posted by Dr. Bob on April 30, 2002, at 9:24:18
In reply to Re: please be civil-what did I say wrong? (nm) » Dr. Bob, posted by kiddo on April 30, 2002, at 9:10:56
You didn't say anything wrong, your post was nice. I quoted what I thought was problematic...
Bob
Posted by kiddo on April 30, 2002, at 9:33:48
In reply to Re: what did I say wrong? » kiddo, posted by Dr. Bob on April 30, 2002, at 9:24:18
Posted by wendy b. on April 30, 2002, at 15:18:06
In reply to Re: blocked for week, posted by Dr. Bob on April 30, 2002, at 8:02:43
Redirected, as requested, to the Admin Board:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20020420/msgs/4841.html
Wendy
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