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Posted by michmich on November 28, 2003, at 20:08:05
I hate my therapist right now, that biatch. she said if i was expieriencing an emergency , she would respond me. yet..she didnt respond to me....i found out that she told a guy on her crisis team to call me...yet he told me that they could not get a hold of her and he was being evasive. i coulsnt talk about stuff to some stranger...so i politley told him this...then i paged my therapist (im supposed to) like 5 times because i was pissed at her and needed to talk to her. and now the director of the counseling center is probably gonna kick me out of dormitory...because i cant cope..but the funny thing...is that im not in my dorm this weekend! im home! so obviously hes punishing me. i hate them. i want to call the crisis team...he said i could ...but 2 months ago..i called twice in one night and called her at the office the next day and i think that pissed him off. i feel like hes gonna go back on his word....stupid politicion! i feel crazy inside i feel desperate i dont know what to do. i know not to page her anymore. but i dont know whether or not i should call the crisis team. i have to do something though. help me please lol
Posted by deirdrehbrt on November 28, 2003, at 21:37:52
In reply to my therapist is gonna kill meeee, posted by michmich on November 28, 2003, at 20:08:05
michmich,
I don't think that your therapist is going to kill you. I also don't think you will loose your room in the dorm either.
I have a problem with calling my therapist too. My problem is that I don't want to call because I think I'm being a pest, and if I call her, she will dump me as a patient. So far, she hasn't. It doesn't look like she's going to either. I think that I've called her a total of about three times. Maybe four.
I guess that my point is that some of us view calling, even when we need to, as a bad thing. We also look to our therapists as authority figures. For those of us who had authority figures hurt us, this doesn't make life easier.
Anyway, you deserve the help you need. You closed your post with 'lol', but I thought your post was quite sincere and serious. Please don't make light of your troubles; they are real, and you deserve your feelings.
Dee.
Posted by Elle2021 on November 29, 2003, at 1:26:12
In reply to my therapist is gonna kill meeee, posted by michmich on November 28, 2003, at 20:08:05
Well lets see, unfortunately I am quite familiar with my pdoc not returning phone calls. At first I was quite put off by this. I actually called him on it, pardon the pun. He told me that his secretery had gotten the message mixed up. That she thought I was going to call back later. So, he said I was waiting for your call, while you were waiting for mine. I don't believe that. Since then he has cancelled my appointments for September, October, and November. Apparently, he has meetings on the same days as my appointment. Well, then I guess he really could care less since he was the one who had decided that I needed a scheduled day to see him (as opposed to just playing it by ear). Well I must admit he did give me ONE 30 minute session...oh my, he's so generous (I'm being sarcastic). Anyway, I don't really know where I'm going with this post. I guess I will have to see what he does for my appointment in December. Will he cancel? Will he even bother calling me back or replying to the email I sent him? Who knows, I feel like this is a soap opera, a very boring one...
Elle
Posted by fallsfall on December 4, 2003, at 8:40:08
In reply to my therapist is gonna kill meeee, posted by michmich on November 28, 2003, at 20:08:05
Next time you see your therapist ask what the rules are about calling. How often can you call? How distressed should you be in order to justify a call? What coping things should you have already tried? What are you supposed to do if... (whatever your situation was when you wrote the post)?
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