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Posted by AdaGrace on October 10, 2004, at 21:51:11
I'm really just have been having a few hard days...wondering if there really is a reason for me to be here. Husband has successfully taken the trauma over my burning accident and turned it into a "very stressful" occassion for himself...he can't sleep well....is having chest pains.....and now has the flu. Today, I just said, you know, I feel like crapola myself....been severely burned, am severely depressed, on my period with cramps from Hades, and have had diarrea all day......I'm sorry but I just can't take care of you today......so now I am uncaring, cold, and selfish.
Posted by AdaGrace on October 10, 2004, at 22:13:15
In reply to really would like someone to talk to, posted by AdaGrace on October 10, 2004, at 21:51:11
So I guess I go into the bedroom, listen to him breath heavily and whine about how he feels and potentially expose myself to the flu. Maybe I can just puke myself to death.
Posted by newwife on October 10, 2004, at 22:29:42
In reply to Re: really would like someone to talk to, posted by AdaGrace on October 10, 2004, at 22:13:15
please dont puke to death. what do you wanna talk about. i have not been good lately either. join my new club. it only costs one million dollars. haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaaa! seriously write back
Posted by just plain jane on October 10, 2004, at 23:17:07
In reply to Re: really would like someone to talk to, posted by AdaGrace on October 10, 2004, at 22:13:15
No good to puke yourself to death, cause there will be good times coming that you would miss out on.
So just puke on the husband.
I hate it when they whine and pay no attention to whatever may be ailing you.
Posted by saw on October 11, 2004, at 3:04:28
In reply to Re: really would like someone to talk to » AdaGrace, posted by just plain jane on October 10, 2004, at 23:17:07
LOL just plain jane
AdaGrace, certainly don't want to make light of what you are going through but I agree with jpj. If you puke on him, maybe he'll move to the couch or spare room and leave you with the whole bed and some peace and quiet.
This must be so hard on you. Dealing with depression as well as a painful injury and illness. My heart goes out to you. My claws are going out to your husband.
How are you feeling today, a little bit better maybe?
Hugs
Sabrina
Posted by AdaGrace on October 11, 2004, at 9:34:52
In reply to Re: really would like someone to talk to, posted by saw on October 11, 2004, at 3:04:28
I'm a little better today, thanks. I actually slept on the couch so as to not expose myself to the flu. Tried to stay up to watch a racy movie but couldn't keep my eyes open long enough. Probably wouldn't have worked on my low sex drive & anti-orgasm problems anyway. Thanks' for all your posts, I really just wanted to talk to someone, but noone was on it seemed and noone was in open, so I just turned the computer off and went outside and sat on the front porch for a while. The main problem with that is that when I am alone, truely alone, all I can think about is how much I am hurting inside my heart and how much I want someone who doesn't want me. I cannot seem to stop crying. I go to therapy tonight. It's been two weeks, I'm supposed to have a letter to my dead mother written. That was my last assignment. I'm not sure what to write, and frankly, I've talked to her many times, I really don't know what to say.
Posted by kellyr. on October 13, 2004, at 16:30:43
In reply to Re: really would like someone to talk to, posted by AdaGrace on October 11, 2004, at 9:34:52
so how did therapy go? did you get the letter to your mom done? i remember when i was asked to write a letter to my dead father, i wrote that i missed him and that how sad i was that he killed himself and left me w/ my abusing mom, that when he was alive that it made me sad to see him doing druges. well i hope things are better w/ you now, but if not give it time it well start soon.
kellyr.
Posted by AdaGrace on October 14, 2004, at 15:59:50
In reply to Re: really would like someone to talk to » AdaGrace, posted by kellyr. on October 13, 2004, at 16:30:43
Therapy was ok. Didn't bawl throught the whole thing. Learned a few things.
I am not responsible for other's happyness.
I am not responsible for other's happyness.
I AM NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR OTHER'S HAPPYNESS.
Thanks for your response.
I appreaciate all the support I have been given here really I do.
Nice to meet you btw.
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