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Posted by Toph on December 9, 2004, at 9:49:18
Hey AG,
Maybe I missed it somewhere, but have you put your tree up yet?
-Toph
Posted by AdaGrace on December 9, 2004, at 16:48:07
In reply to O tannenbaum AdaGrace, posted by Toph on December 9, 2004, at 9:49:18
Alas, the tree is up.
One section of lights not working.BAHHHHHHH
Each of my 3 little changlings have receieved an ornament from their loving mother and somewhat insane grandmother every year since they were born. They have a box of their own now. So here's the senario.
Every year the weekend after my birthday I put up the tree. I have this lovely skinny fake tree now that is pre lit. I stack that sucker together, shove the top under the angel's dress and check the lights for voltage. The chillins then put their ornaments on. When they are done then I put the family ornaments on. That Saturday, I did my duty and raped the angel, and only one child put her ornaments on. The others are simply too busy.......soooooooo no tinsle, no garland.......only one lonely set of ornaments on a disfunctionally lit tree with a huge angle grimacing in regards to the top being shoved up her BUM. I get no respect, no respect I tell ya. So I did the tree skirt, and the stockings, and the rest of the decorations including my extensive collection of Snow Villages that my ungrateful offsprings have occassionally chipped marred or otherwise broke. They are still nestled in their respective boxes in the attic. Ever hear the saying "If Mamma Ain't Happy, NOBODY Happy"? Well, I don't do for them if they don't do for me......so the tree will continue to be half baked so to speak, and therefore much easier to dismantle. As for presents under them? Well there are none. Mommy hasn't had time to buy any. It's a baren wasteland in there and I don't even turn the lights on anymore because the ring around the colar is simply too depressing...........
So Toph, how was your day?
By the way, I believe whole heartedly in spontanious romping and suggest it highly to others. The episode on the dryer about a week ago was stimulating to say the least.
Ada, said to much, Grace
Posted by Susan47 on December 9, 2004, at 18:41:59
In reply to Re: Holy Lazy Kids Batman » Toph, posted by AdaGrace on December 9, 2004, at 16:48:07
Please tell me more, did I miss something, it sounds like FUN. And dryers are WARM. mmmm.
This momma ain't had time to do no shoppin' either. I LOVE how you "rape the angel", but couldn't that be a trigger, I'm always scared to say stuff like that. But your way with words is fabulous.
Posted by Toph on December 9, 2004, at 20:47:24
In reply to Re: Holy Lazy Kids Batman » Toph, posted by AdaGrace on December 9, 2004, at 16:48:07
AG, you crack me up, and I'm not talkin about your angel. What a Hallmark moment you paint. You make it out like you only do this for the rugrats, but I have a sneaking suspicion that when the sucker's up, you lay back on the couch with a beverage of your choice, and with the warm glow of the lights cast upon your face, a little smirky grin appears on your face.
OK, so maybe you were think about the dryer.
-Toph
Posted by AdaGrace on December 10, 2004, at 8:31:16
In reply to Episode on the Dryer, AG?, posted by Susan47 on December 9, 2004, at 18:41:59
Children in the other room......
I was sitting on the dryer......things progressed from there.........Didn't mean to say the R word. I always say the wrong thing.
Posted by AdaGrace on December 10, 2004, at 8:32:01
In reply to Re: Holy Lazy Kids Batman » AdaGrace, posted by Toph on December 9, 2004, at 20:47:24
okay....sometimes I turn the lights on
Posted by Susan47 on December 10, 2004, at 19:39:08
In reply to Re: Holy Lazy Kids Batman, posted by AdaGrace on December 10, 2004, at 8:32:01
you're a scream. What would we do without you???
Posted by Susan47 on December 10, 2004, at 21:51:12
In reply to Adagrace,, posted by Susan47 on December 10, 2004, at 19:39:08
BTW you're getting it I can't feel too terribly sorry for you hon.
Posted by AdaGrace on December 10, 2004, at 22:47:53
In reply to Re: Adagrace,, posted by Susan47 on December 10, 2004, at 21:51:12
I'm getting it, just not getting IT.
Posted by Susan47 on December 10, 2004, at 22:51:33
In reply to Re: Adagrace, » Susan47, posted by AdaGrace on December 10, 2004, at 22:47:53
on another board, maybe you oughtta go there ... or maybe it's not orgasm you're talking about? Don't be shy, you can tell ... we're reading ...
Posted by AdaGrace on December 10, 2004, at 22:58:06
In reply to Hmmm, there's a forum on orgasm somewhere, posted by Susan47 on December 10, 2004, at 22:51:33
I just read it. And yes that is what I am talking about and i am so very tired of having sex and not having one and being with someone who doesn't give a flying fig one way or the other.
Posted by Susan47 on December 11, 2004, at 20:48:32
In reply to Re: Hmmm, there's a forum on orgasm somewhere » Susan47, posted by AdaGrace on December 10, 2004, at 22:58:06
I dont' know how true it really is that he doesn't give a flying F, but I think they get so caught up in the pleasurable feelings we give them, our bodies must be truly wonderful inside ...
Anyway, digressing yet again tonight, on yet another thread ... great dreams coming up tonight, I can tell already they'll be totally confusing and nonproductive. So, AG, tone it down a bit so he doesn't get so excited. What can you do? Wear a female condom, maybe, hahahahahahahahah
Posted by alexandra_k on December 12, 2004, at 0:00:09
In reply to Re: Adagrace, » Susan47, posted by AdaGrace on December 10, 2004, at 22:47:53
Tell him he has to lie quietly on his back or he gets NOTHING.
Then you can have some fun :-)
Posted by AdaGrace on December 12, 2004, at 10:57:01
In reply to Re: Hmmm, there's a forum on orgasm somewhere, posted by Susan47 on December 11, 2004, at 20:48:32
sometimes it works......
Posted by AdaGrace on December 12, 2004, at 11:00:21
In reply to Re: Adagrace,, posted by alexandra_k on December 12, 2004, at 0:00:09
I do that, and it works sometimes but I just want him to "make love" to me. I want him to be in total control and make me feel so very alive and appreciated and loved. I want him to love my body, touch me, stroke me........give me extreem pleasure over and over and over again. I'm 40 we've been married almost 20, I want him to KNOW by now how to do it.....my god I buy him books and buy him books but he will not drink the water..... I have given up on him ever knowing what I need. And yes, I do tell him, I show him and I guide him.........it's no use.......he doesn't worship my body and my heart and certainly not my soul......
Ada, sexually depressed, Grace
Posted by alexandra_k on December 12, 2004, at 13:14:00
In reply to Re: Adagrace, » alexandra_k, posted by AdaGrace on December 12, 2004, at 11:00:21
I do feel a bit sorry for guys sometimes. I mean, our bodies are pretty hard to figure out. Even for us. I guess they try, but can't get the hang of it and think that orgasm is the measure of success or failure so that if we don't come then they figure they may as well just do their thing.
I don't know. I still figure that to start with you should MAKE him do what you like for a while. Then keep telling him how much nicer that was for you. Then after a while you might just be able to expect it???
I have no idea really....
:-)
Posted by alesta on December 12, 2004, at 15:40:24
In reply to Re: Adagrace, » alexandra_k, posted by AdaGrace on December 12, 2004, at 11:00:21
> I do that, and it works sometimes but I just want him to "make love" to me. I want him to be in total control and make me feel so very alive and appreciated and loved. I want him to love my body, touch me, stroke me........give me extreem pleasure over and over and over again. I'm 40 we've been married almost 20, I want him to KNOW by now how to do it.....my god I buy him books and buy him books but he will not drink the water..... I have given up on him ever knowing what I need. And yes, I do tell him, I show him and I guide him.........it's no use.......he doesn't worship my body and my heart and certainly not my soul......
>
> Ada, sexually depressed, Gracewhat is that quote, "you have to take control of your sexual pleasure" or something. i don't mean to get personal or anything, but maybe you could touch yourself during sex or better yet use a really good vibrator on your clit. it can't be easy for them (if they're on top) to touch you and make love to you at the same time. (they gotta hold themselves up and everything, lol.) i think more women should take control and responsibility for their own pleasure.
now if he isn't into foreplay, and that's what you want, maybe you could tell him "if you do this for me, i'll do this for you." hmm. although that is blackmail. oh well!
as for the wanting him to make love to you emotionally, we can't fix that in one post. but maybe this will help the sexual part. who knows, if you're really enjoying the sex, it may evoke from him that passionate being you desire.
amy
Posted by Susan47 on December 12, 2004, at 21:09:03
In reply to Re: Adagrace,, posted by alexandra_k on December 12, 2004, at 13:14:00
Oh, Ada that is so so sad.
You need a lover. Keep your marriage if you must, and it's apparent that you must. But I don't think taking a lover is the wrong thing to do, for you. You need it, but maybe take two just to be on the safe side. Maybe even three. How likely is it that three lovers will all dump you at the same time?
Posted by Susan47 on December 12, 2004, at 21:10:52
In reply to Re: Adagrace, » AdaGrace, posted by alesta on December 12, 2004, at 15:40:24
Nope, take a few lovers. You need the insurance.
Posted by alesta on December 13, 2004, at 5:42:01
In reply to Re: Adagrace, » AdaGrace, posted by alesta on December 12, 2004, at 15:40:24
ada, i know i'm probably trying to fix things for you from the wrong end (relationship problems are usually reflected in the bedroom), but you never know what will help. just like you can supposedly smile your way into a good mood, maybe you can orgasm your way into a good relationship!
just maybe..:-)amy
Posted by Susan47 on December 13, 2004, at 11:37:17
In reply to Re: Adagrace, » alesta, posted by alesta on December 13, 2004, at 5:42:01
Posted by AdaGrace on December 14, 2004, at 6:36:31
In reply to Re: Adagrace,, posted by alexandra_k on December 12, 2004, at 13:14:00
I have done all that Alexandra.......I seriously have. I am so very tired of telling him, showing him..........it doesn't matter. Sometimes he tries, and most of the time he doesn't. He's selfish. Pure and simple.
Posted by AdaGrace on December 14, 2004, at 6:39:32
In reply to Re: Adagrace,, posted by Susan47 on December 12, 2004, at 21:09:03
Susan,
Because my heart hurts and I am incapable of having sex with someone I don't love, I just have trouble with the lover thing. I have tried, doncha know. It didn't work, because they don't love me back. I love people that don't love me back and I keep trying to harden my heart, but it keeps breaking open, the wound bleeding again and again. I can't seem to leave well enough alone. I keep picking at the scab.
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