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Posted by alesta on October 28, 2005, at 8:06:33
man, why do i tend to self-destruct when things are going well? it's kind of like a masochistic tendency. it doesn't pervade my life, but comes out in little ways, sometimes disguised as empathy...i look out for others more than/at the expense of myself. (the way i handle my overwhelming concern for certain others is sometimes toxic.) i plan to terminate this behavior ASAP. this is the final frontier to my mental health...i think i've finally arrived. woohoo
amy
Posted by crazy teresa on October 28, 2005, at 9:36:29
In reply to impulsive self-destructiveness..finit!, posted by alesta on October 28, 2005, at 8:06:33
Posted by alesta on October 28, 2005, at 9:47:34
In reply to You GO girl! That's great! (nm) » alesta, posted by crazy teresa on October 28, 2005, at 9:36:29
thanks crazy t! love your (thoughtful) enthusiasm. i'm trying! thanks much for being supportive.
hope the morning finds you well..:)
aimy:-)
Posted by crazy teresa on October 28, 2005, at 10:27:24
In reply to Re: You GO girl! That's great! » crazy teresa, posted by alesta on October 28, 2005, at 9:47:34
What was it that helped you decide to let it go?
Posted by alesta on October 28, 2005, at 10:36:59
In reply to Letting the toxic stuff go is very freeing! » alesta, posted by crazy teresa on October 28, 2005, at 10:27:24
> What was it that helped you decide to let it go?
i just don't wanna create stress for myself anymore, t. ...aim:)
Posted by crazy teresa on October 28, 2005, at 10:58:54
In reply to Re: Letting the toxic stuff go is very freeing! » crazy teresa, posted by alesta on October 28, 2005, at 10:36:59
It's all downhill once you make up your mind to change things! Not that it's easy, but once you get used to the freedom, it'll become 2nd nature.
I'm proud of you!
XOXO
crazy t
Posted by Phillipa on October 28, 2005, at 21:14:50
In reply to Making up your mind can be the worst part., posted by crazy teresa on October 28, 2005, at 10:58:54
Decision making is what's rough. Nightmares etc. But once you make a decision the anxiety is relieved. Fondly, Phillipa
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