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Posted by alesta on January 3, 2006, at 12:20:20
i'm not sure if i should post to this site anymore. you see, i have been having serious problems with my current boyfriend. he made me a new promise to stop being a flirt, and i feel like i need to get back to being my loyal, nonflirty self, instead of trying to 'play his game'. not that i flirt here, but i do feel guilty for corresponding w/ guys here. reading tons of posts by them, etc. i feel like it isn't right to him. maybe i'll change my mind later..but i hope i don't get back to the 't*t for tat' mindset...it doesn't help anything anyway, and my character always was *the most* important thing to me. i felt the need to post these thoughts for some reason...why not..i post everything else lol. anyways, emotional fidelity is important to me. so maybe i should just respond to female posts. if he is willing to try, too. hope this doesn't sound lame to anyone. i'm going through *a lot* lately. suicidal thoughts, the worst. anyways, i hope you guys understand. i may just post to females from now on, when i get the chance.
i always gotta splain what's on my mind...:) i was in a hurry to type this so i hope it makes sense...
take care,:)
amy
Posted by James K on January 3, 2006, at 15:59:54
In reply to emotional fidelity to bf..., posted by alesta on January 3, 2006, at 12:20:20
I in no way want to offend you by posting, so if you decide for sure you just want to contribute to females, I will understand and respect that. I felt like that wasn't a definite decision yet so I'm taking a chance.
I just wanted to share that I've been with my wife for 12 years. In that time I've never been unfaithful in deed or spirit. When I used to go out to the rock clubs and she stayed home, some of my female friends started to develop an attraction (maybe me too) and I had to gently ease back. At work I often get flirty or "saucy" with my close female friends, (alway aware of boundaries in the work place), just for fun and humor. I believe it's harmless.
I also struggle with suicidal thoughts and depressions and I don't mind who I share with if we can inform or uplift each other.
The short time I've been here I haven't seen anything out of line from anyone, but only you can decide for yourself.
I hope my input makes sense,
James K
Posted by LegWarmers on January 3, 2006, at 16:19:30
In reply to emotional fidelity to bf..., posted by alesta on January 3, 2006, at 12:20:20
Alesta Alesta Alesta...... :) aka- Linda Blair ; )
I wouldnt hesitate at all speaking to males. It is not like flirting in person. Its not fair to yourself to do that. Unless that is how you feel and you really don't want to speak to the males here. Dont worry yourself so much. ok?
I hope you are ok?
Legwarmers :)
Posted by Larry Hoover on January 3, 2006, at 16:44:13
In reply to emotional fidelity to bf..., posted by alesta on January 3, 2006, at 12:20:20
> not that i flirt here, but i do feel guilty for corresponding w/ guys here. reading tons of posts by them, etc.
> anyways, emotional fidelity is important to me. so maybe i should just respond to female posts.
I am mystified.
I don't even know the gender of many posters here.
Many times, I think I knew, and I was wrong.
I care about many people, of both genders.
Caring about one person doesn't cancel out my caring about another person.
I don't understand. I really don't. I am totally Spocked.
Lar
Posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 16:49:38
In reply to emotional fidelity to bf..., posted by alesta on January 3, 2006, at 12:20:20
when one person wants to be in control of the other.
Posted by Phillipa on January 3, 2006, at 18:39:54
In reply to Never, never, never good » alesta, posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 16:49:38
Maybe someone should start a Thread with posters identifying their gender to see if we've correctly guessed. Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 20:47:09
In reply to Re: Never, never, never good » crazy teresa, posted by Phillipa on January 3, 2006, at 18:39:54
Posted by Phillipa on January 3, 2006, at 21:59:33
In reply to You think I'm a man? (nm) » Phillipa, posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 20:47:09
You mean you're not? Fondly, Phillipa ps thought crazy T mean you were crazy impersonating a man.
Posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 22:10:13
In reply to Re: You think I'm a man? » crazy teresa, posted by Phillipa on January 3, 2006, at 21:59:33
Because now my secret is out! crazy t is really an abbreviation for..
that's right...
crazy testicles... ROFL!!!
Posted by LegWarmers on January 3, 2006, at 22:13:26
In reply to You think I'm a man? (nm) » Phillipa, posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 20:47:09
Posted by LegWarmers on January 3, 2006, at 22:14:29
In reply to I am howling w/ laughter Fondly, Phillipa!, posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 22:10:13
Crazy Testicles rofl
Posted by Larry Hoover on January 3, 2006, at 22:43:27
In reply to I am howling w/ laughter Fondly, Phillipa!, posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 22:10:13
> Because now my secret is out! crazy t is really an abbreviation for..
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> that's right...
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> crazy testicles... ROFL!!!Well then, you can forget about me repeating that tongue cramp. Nuh-uh.
Posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 23:00:20
In reply to Re: I am howling w/ laughter Fondly, Phillipa! » crazy teresa, posted by Larry Hoover on January 3, 2006, at 22:43:27
Posted by Larry Hoover on January 3, 2006, at 23:09:07
In reply to I was waiting on your response! ROFL!!! (nm) » Larry Hoover, posted by crazy teresa on January 3, 2006, at 23:00:20
Posted by LegWarmers on January 3, 2006, at 23:20:13
In reply to Have lumpy, no humpy. Capiche? (nm) » crazy teresa, posted by Larry Hoover on January 3, 2006, at 23:09:07
Did you do the lyrics for black eyed peas
"my lumps"?
Posted by LegWarmers on January 3, 2006, at 23:21:03
In reply to Re: Have lumpy, no humpy. Capiche? » Larry Hoover, posted by LegWarmers on January 3, 2006, at 23:20:13
> Did you do the lyrics for black eyed peas
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> "my lumps"?that was not the link!
Posted by alesta on January 4, 2006, at 11:10:43
In reply to Re: emotional fidelity to bf..., posted by LegWarmers on January 3, 2006, at 16:19:30
<Dont worry yourself so much. ok?
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> I hope you are ok?
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> Legwarmers :)
thanks so much for all you guys' contributions:)...i'd rather not think about this too much more...it's depressing me. i'm not sure *what* i'm gonna do right now...i guess nothing until i figure this out.i'll try not to worry myself legwarmers... and i'm doing well today, thanks for asking, girl.:) hope you are well as well. :-)
alesta, i mean, raygan ;) (sp.)
Posted by muffled on January 6, 2006, at 0:58:45
In reply to Re: Have lumpy, no humpy. Capiche? » Larry Hoover, posted by LegWarmers on January 3, 2006, at 23:20:13
Posted by muffled on January 6, 2006, at 0:59:32
In reply to Re: emotional fidelity to bf..., posted by alesta on January 4, 2006, at 11:10:43
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