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Posted by rjlockhart on April 2, 2006, at 22:34:31
My parents are almost psychically fighting, they are yelling, screaming "B*LLSHIT...YOU ARE LYING TRASH MOUTH, YOU CONDEM ME YOU SON OF BITCH"
"YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS MAKING THIS HAPPEN"
"NO, ALL IT WAS IS YOU HAD TO BE JUST A LITTLE KIND YOU *SSHOLE, YOU HAVE ENDED THIS REALATIONSIP RUINED, I SHOULD OF KNEW THIS"
I cant take this, i dont know, i feel im going to slit personalites. Im feeling numb. I have all this paranoia of going to church, people talked about me, i wanted to say "what did you just say"? what a christain you are, you hippocrit. I wanted to just EXPLODE, i got feelings of dispair, i felt so bad that a church would do this, I got horrid thoughts, i gave him a look "you keep shut" I am getting very paranoid, i need, im dont know, whats going to happen.
I cant go to sleep, you guys i need help.
please post something.
Posted by LegWarmers on April 2, 2006, at 23:12:47
In reply to my parents are fighting, i am fixing to switch., posted by rjlockhart on April 2, 2006, at 22:34:31
> My parents are almost psychically fighting, they are yelling, screaming "B*LLSHIT...YOU ARE LYING TRASH MOUTH, YOU CONDEM ME YOU SON OF BITCH"
>
> "YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS MAKING THIS HAPPEN"
>
> "NO, ALL IT WAS IS YOU HAD TO BE JUST A LITTLE KIND YOU *SSHOLE, YOU HAVE ENDED THIS REALATIONSIP RUINED, I SHOULD OF KNEW THIS"
>Do you have headohones? when your parents fight it might be a really good idea to tune them out with music.
> I cant take this, i dont know, i feel im going to slit personalites. Im feeling numb.
try to take deep breaths and calm down, what meds do you have for situations like this? take one of them and it should help you sleep.
> I cant go to sleep, you guys i need help.
>
> please post something.im sorry i can't be of more help, but I do understand. maybe if you take somethin git will help you fall asleep, i took something and it is starting to hit me.
hang in there matt
Posted by gardenergirl on April 2, 2006, at 23:23:41
In reply to Re: my parents are fighting, i am fixing to switch., posted by LegWarmers on April 2, 2006, at 23:12:47
Take care, Matt. I think Legwarmers had good advice. Hopefully there is somewhere in the house where you can go and stay out of it. I remember hearing my parents fight, and it was always quite upsetting to me. I hope they stop soon.
Stay safe.
gg
Posted by rjlockhart on April 2, 2006, at 23:30:07
"B*LLSHIT YOU SON OF BITCH, YOU DONT LOVE ME, YOU ARE ALWAYS RIGHT, THATS RIGHT, YOU THINK YOU ARE ALWAYS RIGHT, YOU ARE SO FULL OF SH*T I AM DISCUSTED" Right now that is my mom screaming.
I have to get out of here, this envirment is toxic, oh god, she screaming at the top of her lungs now, im in my room. I dont want to say what she is saying. They are having relationship problems, and i think they need to have counseling. Mandatory.
God i am taking a Xanax and going to bed.
Posted by verne on April 2, 2006, at 23:30:58
In reply to my parents are fighting, i am fixing to switch., posted by rjlockhart on April 2, 2006, at 22:34:31
If church is part of the problem I like to go to scripture like the Beautitudes or Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7). Church politics, games, and social stuff usually won't come close.
Easier said than done, but don't let them get you down. Don't empower them.
Check out: "Assertiveness: You're Perfect Right"
verne
Posted by LegWarmers on April 2, 2006, at 23:31:14
In reply to my parents are fighting, i am fixing to switch., posted by rjlockhart on April 2, 2006, at 22:34:31
MAtt it might be worthwhile to speak to your dad, would you ever consider telling him how horrible the situation is? i know you have some problems with him as well but maybe he could help you work on solutions together? Bringing someone close to you in can be very helpful, and as someone ele said, a social worker..and or family therapy might make a big difference?
Posted by LegWarmers on April 2, 2006, at 23:32:30
In reply to My parents are going crazy, posted by rjlockhart on April 2, 2006, at 22:17:56
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> God i am taking a Xanax and going to bed.
good idea, but id also think about talking to your dad, or another sibling?
Posted by Maxime on April 3, 2006, at 11:13:50
In reply to my parents are fighting, i am fixing to switch., posted by rjlockhart on April 2, 2006, at 22:34:31
Matt, can I say it one more time. Try to get some therapy. You are living in an explosive environment, no wonder your emotions go all over the place. You know, if you didn't live with your parents, you might not even need meds.
Maxime
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