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Posted by bandmaster on May 1, 2006, at 16:21:30
Hey there.. I'm a 24 old male, and I just recently lost my virginity. In my most recently ended relationship I found that when I was in the mood (Rarely) I had trouble keeping an erection even after sex was taking place. In my mind once I had sex I was supposed to be all I wanted.. I'm 24!!! what the hell, It's like I want to want sex...... but I just don't someone have any ideas?
Posted by Pfinstegg on May 1, 2006, at 17:51:56
In reply to 24 yr old, just lost virginity and have no sex dr., posted by bandmaster on May 1, 2006, at 16:21:30
You're just at the peak of your sexual powers, so something must be interfering. Are you taking any AD's? I think the best thing would be to go to a really good sex therapist- you will get a thorough physical check-up to make sure there isn't a medical cause- and also a chance to explore and overcome any childhood traumas which could be preventing you from enjoying your own sexuality completely.
Posted by Phillipa on May 1, 2006, at 21:14:22
In reply to Re: 24 yr old, just lost virginity and have no sex dr. » bandmaster, posted by Pfinstegg on May 1, 2006, at 17:51:56
Agree and low testosterone could be a problem. Love Phillipa
Posted by Declan on May 2, 2006, at 4:33:52
In reply to 24 yr old, just lost virginity and have no sex dr., posted by bandmaster on May 1, 2006, at 16:21:30
'I want to want sex'
Me too.
Now I'm gonna do a 'when I was your age thing'. But look....I just did not know what I wanted; I had no idea how to organise it if I did; I couldn't even do the things I didn't want to do; and so I was hopeless. Hmmm.
OK, naturally you want a great sex life (any sex life). What can you find that turns you on? Isn't that likely to be it?
Unless you're taking drugs of any sort (more or less). The canary in the coal mine effect; sex is the first to suffer, often.
Declan
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