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Posted by rjlockhart on October 15, 2006, at 20:53:26
I swear i wished i was someone else, someone popular i mean i can act popular but i dont really know my own personality. Its in fragments.
I look at all the movie stars wished i was a part of it, or not that just investors, successful people, but i feel im a person who just lives at home and watches it on tv.
I have so many things about myself that i want to change, but i feel i just am stuck, i want to learn more about being a person. Not just existing.
Im just pondering thought.....
Im in a melconic mood.
Matt
Posted by draughn88 on October 15, 2006, at 21:33:26
In reply to Feeling inferior, longing to do something, posted by rjlockhart on October 15, 2006, at 20:53:26
Man...I looked for you in church today. I cannot believe that you gave me this website to see your post. Sick... I told our Youth Director about this site. He's going to come and look at it. We are worried about you man! Matt, you don't belong here! These are the rejects of the world talking to each other about their pills, their therapist appointments and Laa.. Laa.. Land! And they all support each other... that is really sick. You want to get into the real world? Get out of here! I am going look up your number and give you a call. Keep the faith, man. I won't be back to this site now that I have seen you on line and to see "whatever" sick post these people have got to post about you or me. there nuts.
Posted by gardenergirl on October 15, 2006, at 21:41:06
In reply to Re: Feeling inferior, longing to do something, posted by draughn88 on October 15, 2006, at 21:33:26
> These are the rejects of the world ... .
Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. You've been asked to be civil ( http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20061005/msgs/694554.html ) , so now I am blocking you from posting for a week.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civilFollow-ups regarding these issues should be directed to the Admin. board and should of course be civil. Dr. Bob has oversight over deputy decisions. Thus, you can always appeal this decision to him, and he may choose a different action.
Regards,
deputy gg
Posted by Phillipa on October 15, 2006, at 22:26:55
In reply to Feeling inferior, longing to do something, posted by rjlockhart on October 15, 2006, at 20:53:26
Matt remember tomorrow is school and work. So get a good night's sleep. Love Phillipa
Posted by Declan on October 16, 2006, at 5:10:03
In reply to Feeling inferior, longing to do something, posted by rjlockhart on October 15, 2006, at 20:53:26
Let's start with a little song by Lou Reed, the relevant words of which are
'O please can I be you? Your personality's allright.'
Posted by sunnydays on October 16, 2006, at 8:22:27
In reply to Rejects of the world unite! » rjlockhart, posted by Declan on October 16, 2006, at 5:10:03
:) Thanks Declan.
Must repeat to myself... "not a reject, not a reject" or I'm going to get very depressed.
I will not let reading this ruin my day.
sunnydays
Posted by frida on October 16, 2006, at 10:21:46
In reply to Re: Feeling inferior, longing to do something, posted by draughn88 on October 15, 2006, at 21:33:26
I found this very hurtful. I am not in a good place right now, I should stay away from this and I shouldn't respond to this because I don't how to word this nicely, but I can't stop myself...
It seems sad to me that someone who is supposed to be part of a church rejects and is so judgemental of others.
Instead of being "worried" about someone who is seeking and finding help, I think they should be worried about their own lack of empathy and compassion.
Who's the one who needs help here?
Posted by Declan on October 16, 2006, at 17:16:31
In reply to Re: Rejects of the world unite! » Declan, posted by sunnydays on October 16, 2006, at 8:22:27
Ruin my day? Hell no. Not even close. Nor yours either, I hope. We should not be so easily marginalised. We all know what humiliation is.
Posted by Racer on October 16, 2006, at 18:53:48
In reply to Rejects of the world unite! » rjlockhart, posted by Declan on October 16, 2006, at 5:10:03
And, because I accept you, neither do you. You know, that goes for pretty much everyone here, so I guess we're not rejects after all...
Sorry to pour sunshine on your parade...
Posted by rjlockhart on October 16, 2006, at 20:11:02
In reply to Sorry, I don't qualify » Declan, posted by Racer on October 16, 2006, at 18:53:48
I know you blocked but if you are really from Gateway church please forgive me, but i never rerember talking to a person about this, this actual site that i rerember maybe i did i dont know.
If you are please give me a call. Ask for Matt.
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 17, 2006, at 3:34:00
In reply to Re: Feeling inferior, longing to do something » draughn88, posted by frida on October 16, 2006, at 10:21:46
> I am not in a good place right now, I should stay away from this and I shouldn't respond to this because I don't how to word this nicely, but I can't stop myself...
I'm sorry you felt hurt. And weren't in a good place. But I do wish you had found another way to word your reply.
> is so judgemental of others.
> should be worried about their own lack of empathy and compassion.Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by frida on October 17, 2006, at 10:42:56
In reply to Re: please be civil » frida, posted by Dr. Bob on October 17, 2006, at 3:34:00
Sorry, it won't happen again. I should have said that differently
Frida
> > I am not in a good place right now, I should stay away from this and I shouldn't respond to this because I don't how to word this nicely, but I can't stop myself...
>
> I'm sorry you felt hurt. And weren't in a good place. But I do wish you had found another way to word your reply.
>
> > is so judgemental of others.
> > should be worried about their own lack of empathy and compassion.
>
> Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
>
> But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
>
> If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
>
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
>
> Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
>
> Thanks,
>
> Bob
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 19, 2006, at 0:45:56
In reply to Re: sorry » Dr. Bob, posted by frida on October 17, 2006, at 10:42:56
Posted by elanor roosevelt on October 22, 2006, at 21:03:27
In reply to Re: thanks (nm) » frida, posted by Dr. Bob on October 19, 2006, at 0:45:56
i think what we need here is some compassion. i have been feeling like a complete failure. Am i? probably not -- the world just looks that way this week.
rj
hang in there
take long walks if you can
and do some nice things for yourself
make lists for going forward
good luck
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