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Posted by Larry Hoover on October 27, 2007, at 12:26:04
In reply to she died in her sleep last night = ( (nm), posted by zenhussy on October 27, 2007, at 10:36:53
Oh dear! So sorry for you loss.
{{{{{{{{zen}}}}}}}}
Posted by Phillipa on October 27, 2007, at 12:28:11
In reply to Re: she died in her sleep last night = ( » zenhussy, posted by Larry Hoover on October 27, 2007, at 12:26:04
If someone died my deepest regrets but confused must be private. Phillipa
Posted by Phil on October 27, 2007, at 16:48:15
In reply to Re: she died in her sleep last night = (, posted by Phillipa on October 27, 2007, at 12:28:11
zen's mother died, Phillipa.
Posted by Phillipa on October 27, 2007, at 21:41:22
In reply to Re: she died in her sleep last night = (, posted by Phillipa on October 27, 2007, at 12:28:11
Phil thanks for clarifying Zen so sorry. Phillipa
Posted by Racer on October 27, 2007, at 22:11:20
In reply to she died in her sleep last night = ( (nm), posted by zenhussy on October 27, 2007, at 10:36:53
You have my deepest sympathy, and I hope you're well.
Peace.
Posted by gardenergirl on October 28, 2007, at 3:23:57
In reply to I'm very sorry » zenhussy, posted by Racer on October 27, 2007, at 22:11:20
Oh zen, I'm so sorry about your mother. And about the package. So many precious things, once broken, seem irreplaceable. All we can do, I think, is hold the pieces close to us and remember what they represent.
gg
Posted by Justherself54 on October 28, 2007, at 9:05:06
In reply to Re: I'm very sorry, posted by gardenergirl on October 28, 2007, at 3:23:57
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posted by Dinah on October 28, 2007, at 10:33:06
In reply to she died in her sleep last night = ( (nm), posted by zenhussy on October 27, 2007, at 10:36:53
My thoughts are with you.
Posted by Poet on October 28, 2007, at 12:49:33
In reply to I'm so sorry, zen, posted by Dinah on October 28, 2007, at 10:33:06
Hi Zenhussy,
I am sorry to hear about your mother. I'm surrounding you with the white light of healing and holding light for you.
Poet
Posted by rskontos on October 28, 2007, at 12:55:20
In reply to Re: I'm so sorry, zen » Dinah, posted by Poet on October 28, 2007, at 12:49:33
Zen, I am a newbie this this board but not to Babble. I lost my mother young. I am so sorry you are going through this. It is a hard thing to go through. You have my prayers and support this this difficult time. rk
Posted by seldomseen on October 28, 2007, at 19:59:33
In reply to she died in her sleep last night = ( (nm), posted by zenhussy on October 27, 2007, at 10:36:53
I'm so sorry Zen. Take good care of yourself
Posted by TexasChic on October 28, 2007, at 20:35:22
In reply to Re: she died in her sleep last night = ( » zenhussy, posted by seldomseen on October 28, 2007, at 19:59:33
Posted by Toph on October 30, 2007, at 11:16:27
In reply to she died in her sleep last night = ( (nm), posted by zenhussy on October 27, 2007, at 10:36:53
Jeez _zh, I hope you are alright. Talk to us when you can.
Posted by zenhussy on November 3, 2007, at 22:12:34
In reply to Re: she died in her sleep last night = ( » zenhussy, posted by Toph on October 30, 2007, at 11:16:27
Thank you to each and every one of you for the kind wishes.
We ended up having to fly to border town, rent vehicle and drive across the border to the next airport. Nothing like a 17 hour travel day when in a numb state like this.
The details are overwhelming due to living in separate countries. That's why ma paid ppl to take care of these matters. The lawyers and financial ppl will explain all we'll need to know.
It was hard that it took almost a week just to get out here. Phoning her friends in the States who haven't yet heard has to be one of the saddest things we have to do as her children. At least the two of us are glued to one another as we're both in shock and numbly making plans that neither of us fully understand.
Sigh.
goddess and god bless the support from here over the years. the e-mails, phone calls, IMs and all other communications have been holding us up. thank you again for all of your kindness and love.
until next time online...
zh
Posted by ClearSkies on November 4, 2007, at 10:20:46
In reply to Re: she died in her sleep last night = (, posted by zenhussy on November 3, 2007, at 22:12:34
Take good care, Zen. I don't know what else to say except that I know how difficult it can be to be in another country when you've lost a parent - you're absolutely marooned. My thoughts are with you.
ClearSkies
Posted by karen_kay on November 7, 2007, at 16:00:10
In reply to she died in her sleep last night = ( (nm), posted by zenhussy on October 27, 2007, at 10:36:53
biggest hugs ever to you. you're not only in my thoughts, but everyone in my house's as well.
please take care of yourself. and if you need somewhere to crash along the way, you know where to find me sweetie.
love you,
kk
Posted by Kath on November 13, 2007, at 10:16:41
In reply to she died in her sleep last night = ( (nm), posted by zenhussy on October 27, 2007, at 10:36:53
Zenny - I am so very sorry.
(((((((((((((((((((you)))))))))))))))))))))))
much love, Kath
Posted by zenhussy on November 16, 2007, at 18:17:53
In reply to (((((((((((((((((((((((((((zen)))))))))))))))))))) » zenhussy, posted by Kath on November 13, 2007, at 10:16:41
back in the states again. seems like bro went through last two weeks in fog while we made decisions....now we're in fog and cannot think way out of paper bag. bro returning to normal-ish. we've hit wall and crashed--hard.
guess that's normal. am deeply moved by outpouring here and IRL mails as this exhausted heart needs support to recover and heal.
much love for the kindness and condolences
sad zh
Posted by gardenergirl on November 17, 2007, at 0:12:02
In reply to exhausted in every way...totally spent...just done, posted by zenhussy on November 16, 2007, at 18:17:53
I'm glad you're back safely. I hope that you'll find time to rest and recover in the coming days.
gg
Posted by karen_kay on November 21, 2007, at 11:44:16
In reply to exhausted in every way...totally spent...just done, posted by zenhussy on November 16, 2007, at 18:17:53
you hanging in there hun?
missing you darling!!!!
sending much love and healing thoughts your way,
kk
Posted by zenhussy on November 25, 2007, at 1:35:06
In reply to hussy??? » zenhussy, posted by karen_kay on November 21, 2007, at 11:44:16
ran to Reno for wknd (and no, not to shoot a man just to watch him die!) so as not to be alone for turkey day stuff. friend's family has been very welcoming and comforting.
it truly sucks sweetie. hurts more than imagined and keep sweeping over in waves when least expected.
Posted by karen_kay on November 26, 2007, at 14:26:08
In reply to Re: hussy??? » karen_kay, posted by zenhussy on November 25, 2007, at 1:35:06
to help you out during the holidays hun. maybe if it makes you feel better, you could always pop down to reno, via greyhound (tatertots :) and watch a man die? jsut to do it? ok, maybe not...
sweetie, it'll get better. certainly not anytime soon of course. don't believe anyone who tells you that crap, but it will.
take your meds (you hoarder (notice the *er*)), and sleep as long as your body will allow you. i'm always here, call collect. mister kk won't mind, but you may get an answer similar to "WHO IS THIS???" :)
we love you here!!
kk
Posted by karen_kay on December 9, 2007, at 11:41:55
In reply to glad you have such great friends! » zenhussy, posted by karen_kay on November 26, 2007, at 14:26:08
still hangin in there?
just worried/wondering about you hun.
remember you've got tons o friends who love/adore/care/worry/wonder/pretty much think the world of you!!!!!
keep on taking your time, writing one liners, petting that gorgeous doggie of yours! she adores you too! and will curl up on you whenever you need her to (she's pretty darn perceptive, you know).
take care of that wonderful hussy we all know and love!
with love,
karen
Posted by zenhussy on December 9, 2007, at 12:15:53
In reply to hussy????, posted by karen_kay on December 9, 2007, at 11:41:55
Posted by zenhussy on December 9, 2007, at 12:56:01
In reply to hussy????, posted by karen_kay on December 9, 2007, at 11:41:55
thanks lovie for askin' after us. thanks to the folks who've written as well. (p.s. ducke is adorable as usual and apron man...need we say more?!) we're still in that too shocked to respond coherently phase. hoping that lifts soon!
had forgotten this reply to Kath and TC a few days ago. the ol' memory is on the fritz right now.
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