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Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 17, 2009, at 12:55:34
I just wanted to ask if we could work as a team to improve out lives, and see the flaw's and logically find a solution, yet acting on things, sometimes motivation is much because you see no reward in what you accomplish, and part of that is severe depression, not having things to look forward to.
This site I've been here, and I want to make it...at least something there when there is no support, or just a "place" online to go and know poster's.
I don't know how to start a team, yet acting on oppuritinies are the key thing, yet I know what It feels like that "there's nothing to look forward to" and that is the most worst depression I've experienced, cancel that thought out.
Could...maybe some of this be free social working to help people here on this site, who are having difficulty in problems in life and their own feelings of depression/sorrow that come.
This is a good speech, I thought I would share it here, this is from the first episode of star trek Voyager, don't know what's to come but believing that there is going to be something that is there, is atleast something to believe and lookforward to.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-I5WKLsUvgE
I think what we're doing here is already support, yet could there be a "enhanced" part, where working with a individuel poster/s, and the only thing that's going to be hard is "personal" info about life it depends on the poster, posting names are ananoumous so just never type your name here because it will show up somewhere on google. I know when giving advice and then not acting on it...yes i've done that, because of the feeling of helplessness, and "nothing" to look forward to.
Let's give it a think, and maybe give it a start. To start free social work here on this website.
To the best...
Posted by manic666 on October 17, 2009, at 14:41:05
In reply to Online Cognitive Behavior Therapy, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 17, 2009, at 12:55:34
i see were that speech is comeing from , cool way to translate what your saying
Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 17, 2009, at 15:20:26
In reply to Online Cognitive Behavior Therapy, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 17, 2009, at 12:55:34
Yea, it was an example of how maybe things are going to look from now on. One thing, when a project is started, it's sometimes depressing after you start it, in means of how I see things, that's how I operate, stimulants have been the only thing that has helped, yet a team online to work together socially maybe could help but I don't want to start something I feel I can't hold out..
Right now I feel "numb", there are things in life i'm avoiding, because of 2 things...out of the comfort zone. When someone tell's you to leave your comfort zone, you get kinda ... backoffish. A way to establish connections well with people here...Phillipa, maxime, Racer know some what of the online personality, of how we see life.
I want to change, and head home for destiny, this is not talk, this is a "wanting".
Anyway's best of luck till then.
Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 17, 2009, at 19:28:39
In reply to Re: Online Cognitive Behavior Therapy, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 17, 2009, at 15:20:26
just about life improvment, Cognitive Behavior session's are logic over emotions, logically if this person does this then you exclude them from some situations, Psychoanaylisis is more into the "true" person, in my terms. How they feel about life.
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Make connections to people like I do a certain person in life that I trust yet they eventually give up on you because of choices of action's. I've got to trust and have love like a family of friends.
This morning I was hyped up, about life...now psssssssssssssttt "it's really what you see at as" not idealist, or a constant uptopia look of you applying yourself to life, with having no problems, getting what you want, there is so many things that are blocking success, yet choice is the main thing to give a plan, acting is the motivation to get out into the world.
Personally: I need to connect, yet there is an image that I can do, which is "counsel", yet when I look at myself, I see rj at 14 because there is person who controlled everything, and I eventually just gave in. Now times have moved on, and "what?" "reality", not thrilled about it.
Just let's start really making this place a improvement or "enhance" someone's abilities, throught talent, or what your good at. And be realisic.
One thing I'm going to start is my flaws:
1. Avoiding doing project's in life because of no idea how to do it.
2. Cannot focus/a person disagrees with taking stimulant medication, and leaves me in the slump.
3. I have guilt, and this guilt executes self-punishment so, people will see me as "well-displined(yet in own eyes, i'm not at all)"
4. It's hard for me to keep a job that requires, putting things together, now if I had medication that helped.....ding ding! i'm up one level and I can handle it at a better level.
5. I don't connect well.So, solutions...are the only way. The main thing is I'm afraid of not "apply" what I do, or what someone advises me so they at least feel "good" about giving successful advice. To everyone in the past, just know I'm changing and it's going slow.
But just like that speech above, there will be a way, it's just what revolves around you, or what you revolve around and control's you, it's called life, and being highly motivated can get you control of what you want. I'm still at square one.
Alright folks, let's look forward to something.
Posted by manic666 on October 22, 2009, at 6:38:12
In reply to Anyone here wanna start a group meeting?, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 17, 2009, at 19:28:39
the thing i found on the hospital cbt course, was i didnt believe half of it.To say thing are not real there in your head Is something i alleady no. An the fight an flight therory is what the work on . Now someone who suffer,s maximum anxierty ,an thats whats the course is all about,like soldiers about to enter battle they defacate an piss themselfs through pure fear,anxierty can an is that bad,so like they used to say to us at cbt, take things a little at a time, like a crowded superstore ,go in first for 10 minutes then build up,the women said how do we stop from sh*tt*ng an pissing areself we carn control are bodies in sheer anxierty. i have not been a victim of lossing my bodily functions , but ive been close, The theropist was a little stumped on this one, a main factor in anxierty. they only take you through a group theropy class for 8 times ,an say you are on your own , an left some of the ladies worse than the start,we all no what to do , but carnt.he didnt seem to grasp that point
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