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Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on December 1, 2009, at 1:53:53
Greetings folks...
Hmm..well I haven't posted in awhile, and I see there are many places where I could be supportive, so I honestly apologize. But....
See, (knock on wood) my meds are doing not too bad of a job..never perfect, but what is?..lol And, I've also been on testosterone therapy for a few months. Now just off the bat, no, I haven't become manic because of the testosterone. But, I've been getting back in shape (losing fat, gain muscle...waist size smaller..). And, my sex drive has been through the roof! I had some pics taken of me lately, and I am not vein,
but geezz I look pretty damn good for a guy who is going to be the big 4-0 in less than a month!
So, combine the above two, and I decided to post a profile on an 'adult' sex website. Plus, I've also had a 'regular' ad on a 'regular' dating website. And holy sh*t, I've been getting some pretty f**king nice responses, from both! Really pretty woman (on the surface, anyways) telling me all sorts of naughty things on the sex-date website. And I've got some amazing responses from the 'regular' dating website. I ask for a LOT in terms of emotional and some intellectual depth on the regular-date website. I've picked a few, actually one now, that I love talking to, and she is just a regular woman, all the fine curves and not a toothpick, and all. She has a very beautiful personality, and that warmth really draws me in. Thing is, we've met briefly, but are planning our big 'date' shortly. And...I have some offers for 'hook-ups' with these very physically attractive women on the sex-date website. And my sex drive is going through the roof, and I REALLY need *it* *NOW*...ya know what I mean? So, should I go to these 'hookups' (always play very safe, and very, very clean), or what? The woman from the regular-date website and I are not even really 'dating' yet. If I go and tell the woman from the regular-date website how horny I am, and *want* her, she will just think I am looking for sex.So, my faithful Babble friends, which way should I do who do when and how? Please advise!!! SOS!..lol
Jay
Posted by manic666 on December 1, 2009, at 4:02:16
In reply to I'ze been a very naughty boy...I need hlp..plzz!!!, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on December 1, 2009, at 1:53:53
dont ask act,only regret what you havent done, not what you have.whats with the sudden sex surge is it cos your feeling good in yourself.if your useing each other ,i dont see a prob, but take care on the health risk.thats a triger of mine, that why i retierd undfeated.
Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on December 1, 2009, at 5:17:15
In reply to Re: I'ze been a very naughty boy...I need hlp..plzz!!!, posted by manic666 on December 1, 2009, at 4:02:16
> dont ask act,only regret what you havent done, not what you have.whats with the sudden sex surge is it cos your feeling good in yourself.if your useing each other ,i dont see a prob, but take care on the health risk.thats a triger of mine, that why i retierd undfeated.
It's gotta be my testosterone therapy. I don't want to risk losing a possible wonderful, loving, long-term relationship. I want to get married and have kids. But, I also wanna get my jolly's off with all of these beautiful women. At almost 40, this is very weird trying to figure this out. A lot of guys my age just peter out sexually. But, I've got my eyes on 20 year old women! Strange, but I have always had younger girlfriends, but this is a bit much. Mind you, I know a guy who is 57 and has a 36 year-old wife. But I love ALL women, younger, older, same age...whatever.
Jay
Posted by manic666 on December 1, 2009, at 14:00:17
In reply to Re: I'ze been a very naughty boy...I need hlp..plzz!!! » manic666, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on December 1, 2009, at 5:17:15
jay i dont no who you have been talking to, but frizzle out at 40, at 40 i used to have beat my nob with a stick to keep the snake in control.Serious buddy get in there, seems like you have a lot of lost time to make up.
Posted by manic666 on December 5, 2009, at 13:20:42
In reply to Re: I'ze been a very naughty boy...I need hlp..plzz!!!, posted by manic666 on December 1, 2009, at 14:00:17
jay buddy , seem,s not many replies ,i think the ladies are a little stunned buy your frankness but sounds cool to me.
Posted by TexasChic on December 6, 2009, at 19:39:51
In reply to I'ze been a very naughty boy...I need hlp..plzz!!!, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on December 1, 2009, at 1:53:53
Well, I know nothing about these sex sites or how safe hooking up with the ppl you meet there may be (and I do have my worries about that), but that aside, I see no problem with having a casual sexual relationship when you aren't even dating this other chic yet. But if you do begin dating, you may want to reconsider, because if she found out you were doing this while dating her, she might find it... I don't know, icky? Just a thought.
-T.
Posted by Kath on December 13, 2009, at 18:47:38
In reply to I'ze been a very naughty boy...I need hlp..plzz!!!, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on December 1, 2009, at 1:53:53
Not around here much lately, but wanted to make a comment Jay.
Seems to me that people who frequent these 'adult' sites might end up being with a number of people who have been with a number of people, who have been with a number of people - get my drift???
Guess what.....................condoms can break!
And if THAT happens, I sould suspect that you'd be subjecting yourself to a LOT more than you would if you were with someone who hadn't been involved in the 'adult' swingin set or whatever.
Just a thought.
Kath
And I DO know that they break, because there was a pregnancy in our family as a result of that very fact.
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