Posted by Ted on August 12, 2001, at 13:41:09
In reply to Re: Sexual side effects and depression.... » CLK, posted by akrake on August 12, 2001, at 8:21:32
CLK & amie,
In addition to my ADs, my wife also takes them. We both have sexual side effects to deal with. You think you're frustrated?!?!
Here are some ideas to try:
1. Switch to zoloft or celexa. They seem to be the weakest ADs and Celexa is supposedly the most specific and least interfering with anorgasmia. (my wife and I take zoloft + wellbutrin)
2. zoloft & celexa both have relatively short half-lives in the bloodstream. Use this to your advantage: Plan with your partner when you want to have sex and don't take your AD that day until afterward. I know this takes the spontaneity out it, but it's better than nothing.
If your symptoms worsen when you skip a dose, take half a dose and see if it OK. If skipping 1 day doesn't do the trick, try 2 days. Paxil & prozac are the worst for anorgasmia because of their long halflives and potent effects.
3. If you have a patient and understanding partner, women have the advantage with sex. I found that oral sex will give my wife all the pleasure she can handle in one evening despite her ADs. :-) Men have it worse: if the ADs don't cause erectile difficulties, then we will die of exhaustion before we get anywhere. :-(
I find the med holidays imperative to satisfying sex. Also, my wife and I have learned to enjoy intercourse without orgasm (after all -- women have had to put up with this for eons). Of course it isn't nearly as satisfying, but it still feels really good. :-)
Good luck
Ted
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