Posted by finelinebob on September 12, 2007, at 0:25:16
In reply to I think I'm ugly, posted by slinky on September 11, 2007, at 13:01:30
Ya know, I've found myself to be a very unreliable source of information concerning myself on such matters. I'm in many ways the worst judge of me there is.
So I've learned to listen to my friends.
Besides, I'm 45. We get to redefine what beauty is when we hit 40, so don't compare yourself to a 20 yr old. Look at some 60 year olds, think about "ugh! how can I avoid that?!" or "Wow, I wish I would be that graceful" and realize you've got 20 years to get there ... the sooner the better so you can grow into it, get comfy with it. There are some 60 yr olds who look like they're 80 and some who look like they're 40 ... hopefully I can learn to be one of the later.
flb
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