Posted by fallsfall on November 9, 2003, at 20:22:56
In reply to Re: Can't do endings - please help » fallsfall, posted by Raindancer on November 9, 2003, at 16:56:17
"he says that my feelings for him get in the way and create a block"
Do you mean by this that he feels that his therapy is not effective for you? Have you talked about "your feelings for him"? What have you done, and what has he done, to get around this block?
Since you still have your original issue, it seems that perhaps he has not been able to be effective for you. You might ask him if it would be more helpful for you to see a therapist who does a different kind of therapy (I used to see a CBT therapist, now I see a Psychodynamic one and they are VERY different). If you have a Psychiatrist who prescribes meds for you, you could ask him the same question.
In my opinion, a certain amount of discomfort is natural during a termination phase. But agony is not.
Let us know how things are going.
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