Posted by Poet on November 19, 2003, at 9:39:01
In reply to the blame game (kinda long), posted by thewriteone on November 18, 2003, at 20:35:17
Hi,
I constantly play the blame game, I usually blame myself, but lately I blame my therapist. We've had many miscommunications that I perceived as rejection and abandonment.
I never say I feel hurt at the time, I go home and brood until the next session. I know that I should talk to her right away when I'm hurt. I tend to post here as I feel safer, I know I should feel safe with her, but I don't when my fear of abandonment kicks in.
Keep being open with your therapist over the miscommunications. You aren't blaming her, you're being open and honest.
I'm going to really push myself not to keep it in anymore. It only makes me feel worse.
Poet
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