Posted by crushedout on January 1, 2004, at 14:56:53
In reply to Re: I saw her today » crushedout, posted by Dinah on January 1, 2004, at 14:42:07
well, that sounds like an excellent idea, but that would ruin my chances of seducing her, dinah!someone else needs to tell her to do that, because i'm only motivated by my desire to be her lover, no matter how much pain it causes me.
it's not sensible, but it's really where i'm at in my head. must be frustrating for you guys, who know i'm out of my mind.
> I think it's great that she admitted the problem, but I also think you should ask her to get supervision on your case. She's admitted to feeling "compelled" to have a connection with you. There's no telling what else she'll feel "compelled to do" and that'll just mess with your mind.
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> If you want to continue to see her, it's really really important that her behavior be closely monitored by someone who can keep tabs on her. You shouldn't have to do that yourself.
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> You're not any two people trying to negotiate a relationship. You're a professional and someone under a professional's care. This is her problem and she should take *extreme* precautions to make sure you aren't hurt by it.
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