Posted by Dinah on January 1, 2004, at 16:47:49
In reply to Re: I saw her today, posted by crushedout on January 1, 2004, at 16:42:21
Can you try altering your fantasies to be more realistic? Don's stop with the sleeping with her. And make the sleeping with her less perfect in your fantasies. Have her pass gas or be really lousy in bed (which is as likely as not you know).
On the rare occasions when i want my therapist to be my real mommy, that's what I do. And I always realize that while he makes a great therapist mommy he'd make an awful real one.
It helps me...
poster:Dinah
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