Posted by alexandra_k on February 4, 2004, at 18:58:01
In reply to ?tion to same-sex therapist...HELP!!!, posted by KindGirl on February 4, 2004, at 9:24:07
Hi there. I get transference stuff most strongly for male T's / p-docs etc, but have become fairly strongly attached to a female T that I had once.
I have realised that what I most want / fantasise about it curling up on their lap, crying my eyes out, and being held. With guys that gets confused with sex first..
I am not sure whether this helps or not, but I did feel really confused about my feelings for my female T for quite a while. I managed to kind of work it out by myself though, so didn't need to discuss it. If it is really disturbing and / or confusing to you then it might be best to bring it up with her - it is her job to help you work through stuff like this. Writing it down is probably the easiest way to get the ball rolling on this.. Otherwise, it might resolve itself in time.
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