Posted by fallsfall on April 2, 2004, at 6:12:52
In reply to Re: HOLIDAYS AND VACATIONS :-( / way :-( » Fallen4myT, posted by Fallen4myT on April 2, 2004, at 0:06:51
Write a letter to her telling him what you would like to say if you could see him (you probably don't want to send it, but writing it can help).
What would he say to you if you talked to him on the phone? Can you imagine both halves of the conversation?
If you told him how much you were missing him, what would he suggest you do? Try doing it - knowing that it is what he would suggest may make it more satisfying.
Imagine what he is doing on his vacation. Tell him that you hope he is having a good time and that he deserves the vacation because he works so hard the rest of the time. Tell him that you will take deep breaths and try to keep occupied so that he can enjoy his time off.
Get your hair done, or have a massage, or something like that where someone takes care of you.
When do you see him again?
Hang in there! Post often!
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