Posted by Dinah on April 21, 2004, at 23:28:01
In reply to wait, you mean i'm not all better? » fallsfall, posted by karen_kay on April 21, 2004, at 22:02:57
I think it's wonderful to want to help others. I also think a lot of people do it to avoid their own problems. The stereotypical people-helper (minister, social worker, etc.) whose own life is a shambles. It makes you feel better, granted.
I'm not of course saying that applies to you. I'm just saying that some people use it as an escape. Escape is well and fine, and I like it myself. But it just covers the festering problems underneath, not solves them.
Not that I'm saying you in particular have festering problems. It's just a general observation on some people who feel driven to help others, certainly not all. For all I know, Mother Theresa was a perfectly well adjusted individual living up to her full potential.
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