Posted by deirdrehbrt on August 15, 2004, at 20:57:54
In reply to Progress, posted by fallsfall on August 13, 2004, at 12:04:59
Dear Falls,
I'm so happy for you. It seems like things are looking up at least a bit. It's nice to find some understanding of your issues, and separation between them.
You mentiooned that your daughter thinks that you aren't a good mom though. I think that perhaps she does, but she doesn't want to admit it. If she admitted that you were a good mom, then she would weaken her position in an argument. Personally, I think she looks up to her brother and her sister, and THEY KNOW that you are a good mom. I'm betting that there is some communication going on between the siblings. Also, I have NEVER heard one negative comment about you as a person from your daughter, and even some unpopular decisions do make sense to her when she thinks about them.
Your daughter is really lucky to have you, and despite disagreements, I truly believe that she knows it.
'hoping that tomorrow goes well,Dee.
poster:deirdrehbrt
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