Posted by fallsfall on September 12, 2004, at 11:26:21
In reply to MESSED UP!!, posted by toomuchpain on September 12, 2004, at 9:23:08
Hi Toomuchpain,
I'm a little confused. Are you saying that you dated your former therapist? Wasn't he the one who was suspended for a while because of inappropriate conduct with you? Wasn't he the one who was ordered to have no contact with you? How can setting up and going on a date be "having no contact"?
You know yourself that this is not a good situation for you. There is nothing in your post that even suggests that there is any positive side of this situation for you.
"Dating" you is unethical. Violating the "no contact" sanction is unethical. "Wanting a serious thing" is beyond unethical.
Toomuchpain, what happened to your therapy? Why do you not have a therapist? I would hope that you would be able to talk to your new therapist about why you are so drawn to this man who is clearly not good for you.
My first reaction is that you should go back to the council who applied the sanction and tell them what is going on.
Please advocate for yourself. You are a very strong person (we saw that during the committee meetings).
Maybe I'm missing something, or confusing you with someone else (I am doing "confused" very well these days...)??
poster:fallsfall
thread:389943
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