Posted by li hing on September 22, 2004, at 2:29:57
In reply to email contact after termination, posted by gardenergirl on July 21, 2004, at 23:56:47
Wow I read all of the posts under this thread and I must say that some of you had such nice therapists.
My counselor was a
major butthead. She told me that I could contact her after termination.
I e-mailed her and she got angry because I was writing too much. I had
thought that we had a close counseling relationship. We saw each other
for 2 years. She never responded to any of my e-mails and ended up
sending me a nasty letter in the mail telling me not to write and that she
won't read anything that I send her.This caught me by surprise and a lot of hurt. I cried for months and
days.Recently I got to see my file that she kept for me. I found out she never
read the letters that I sent to her in the snail mail after termination.
Letters she promised she would read and that she would "love to hear from
me" I guess after all the e-mails, she decided that she hated me and
shoved my unopened letters into my file. I am so angry.In any case for therapists who respond to their clients after termination, I wish you were my therapist. I mean a simple, hello would have been all I needed as a client.
okay, enough for now!
poster:li hing
thread:368821
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