Posted by daisym on September 22, 2004, at 14:11:03
In reply to How does you T show they care?, posted by Speaker on September 22, 2004, at 11:03:46
He tells me, often and with his actions.
Sometimes it is very hard to take in and I find that the trust is still more fragile than I want to think it is.
One of the ways is that he pushes me to let go of my solid all-together exterior and really tell him all of it. He makes it clear that it is about me and that is so unusual in my life.
The other thing...he remembers little details and brings them up again. Like quoting from the card I gave him, or asking about a work thing. It makes me feel like he listens.
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