Posted by Bent on November 3, 2004, at 10:57:41
In reply to Re: Is it my therapist...or me? » Bent, posted by crushedout on November 2, 2004, at 21:04:35
Yes, it makes sense! I am glad you were able to ask for a break. I decided not to call and ask for a break but maybe I will talk to her about it next week. When I have asked for a break in the past it has always been because I was avoiding something or I was angry or felt rejected, kinda like you said. At the same time, I feel like I have brought up this talk of termination so now my time is limited with her. It is so conflicting.
I think I can really relate to what you said about leaving being painful and being stuck in a transference bind. I think that is where I am. It’s like I don’t want her to let me go too easily cause then I will feel like nothing, but at the same time I don’t want her begging me not to go either. I wish there was a way to see through all this confusion and make it not hurt so much.
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