Posted by Rigby on November 18, 2004, at 14:28:38
In reply to what she wrote, posted by crushedout on November 17, 2004, at 19:43:30
Hey Crushed,
I'm with Falls on this in terms of not reading too much into it and trying to move on.
Speaking of moving on--NOT--I'm seeing The Therapist (ex-therapist???) today to clear the air. I just don't live my life with weirdness like this so I wanted to get clear. I feel okay about it. I had to get over me paying for this clarity but in the long haul she's given me a relatively good monetary deal so I can swallow it.
How'd your T2 Appointment go?
Rigby
> "Hi [crushed],
>
> "I'm not sure what you have been going through during this break, but I gather that it hurts and that you are protecting yourself by not meeting with me.
>
> "You are thinking of ending therapy with me. What I understand is that something changed in our relationship, something in the way that I related to you, and that it was painful to experience and to talk about. Even if you decide to leave, it might help to try to talk about what happened. In my life, I have learned a lot from some pretty painful conversations and have been glad that I stuck with them.
>
> "I'll hold the time for you on Tuesday the 30th in the hope that you will consider coming in. And I won't permanently fill your session times until I hear a more definite decision from you.
>
> "my best to you,
> [Ellen]"
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