Posted by yoshimi on December 7, 2004, at 0:50:09
In reply to update, posted by crushedout on December 6, 2004, at 23:49:51
crushed,
i know you don't know me cuz we didnt talk
before, but i keep up with whats going on with
you here cuz i find it interesting cuz it relates
to some stuff in my life. (hope that isnt
freaking you out). so i am sorry to kinda intrudebut i wanted to say that i am really impressed
and think that you are amazing for what you have
done in this situation and i think that really
the longer you can stick it out and not call
her or talk to her the better you will feel.
and pain will still come up but it may kinda
be like addiction where it gets easier over time.i had someone in my life who would hurt me again
and again but sometimes they would say a one
sentence that was nice and then i would think,
wow see they ARE nice and I am crazy, but the
truth is that that person (in my situation, i
am not making judgments on yours cuz im not in it)
wasnt nice then and they arent nice now and
they probably wont ever really be good for me
even if they write a whole page of niceness.oh i am rambling. i am just trying to support
you in your decision. i feel really strongly
that you made the right decision. I hope i ddidnt
upset you any, i just dont want to see you get
hurt or drawn back into it. and I am very very
impressed. my similar (i think) situation was
unbelievably difficult and the willpower it took
to not call or write was huge. but i do feel
a lot better.take care
yoshimi
poster:yoshimi
thread:425487
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20041203/msgs/425513.html