Posted by alexandra_k on December 8, 2004, at 16:07:50
In reply to Struggle with pdoc -- thinking of GG (long), posted by Aphrodite on December 8, 2004, at 12:51:32
Grrrr. I feel for you, I really really do.
>I got a voice mail from her today stating, "I was surprised to get your letter. I am perfectly capable of helping you, and I don't know how you could draw a conclusion otherwise based on one visit. Keep your next appt., and if you're still not comfortable, we'll talk about a transfer. I assume you'll tell me if this response is insufficient."
I would write her again saying something like:
-'I did NOT draw the conclusion that you could not help me - that is why I wrote you the letter with a repairing relationship kind of intention'.
-'I was attempting to communicate what was hard for me in seeing you. Do you have any sympathy at all for anything I have said, or do you think you will just blunder on and keep being insensitive to my trauma etc?'
-'Your response is insufficient because you aren't really answering the problems I addressed. (see point two).
If she doesn't get point two then run, run, run for the hills.
Just MHO.
You deserve better than that.
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