Posted by Aphrodite on December 29, 2004, at 13:23:22
In reply to Tears Seem Endless, posted by 10derheart on December 28, 2004, at 20:27:28
I wish I had some words of comfort. I would be exactly like you (probably much worse) if it were to happen to me. It must feel like losing a beloved family member. I am so, so sorry.
I am heartened, however, to know that you are continuting to persevere with T2 despite your lack of connection. You may not wish to connect to T2 because it may feel like a betrayal of T1 or that attachment to T2 means you are moving on. I hope T2 hangs in there with you, giving you much-needed support until *you* are ready to attach again, which must be a very scary thought indeed.
I hope you find some comfort in the fact that your ability to attach at all is a very healthy sign. It is also very healthy that you recognize the need for T2 in processing your grief. You sound like you have an enormous capacity for love and caring and devotion -- sometimes those big hearts like yours get broken the most.
Please take care, and keep posting.
poster:Aphrodite
thread:435219
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