Posted by Dinah on January 19, 2005, at 16:07:49
In reply to Re: I'm hopeless...NOT! » gardenergirl, posted by daisym on January 19, 2005, at 0:12:48
Time, I suspect. And going over the same ground over and over and over again. In fact, over time, both things have happened to me. I've developed security within the attachment, and the intensity of the need, if not the intensity of the attachment, has lessened. They're not the same thing, somehow. It has something to do with acceptance on both our parts, and acceptance of each others acceptance as well as our own.
Although I still like to review the same ground from time to time.
Weird. It's definitely a weird relationship.
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