Posted by thewrite1 on February 1, 2005, at 22:51:23
In reply to T's wording keeps distance, posted by Speaker on February 1, 2005, at 22:12:47
I'm channeling my own T on this, so forgive me if I'm completely off base. It sounds like you were disapointed by some people during that time in your life (I'm reluctant to put a label on it). It very well could be that you're experiencing some transference there. It comes up for me way more than I care to admit. My advice would be to be honest with your T and the next time he says, "I'm willing...", maybe you could say "When you say X it makes me feel YZ."
I know that's easier said than done, but if you don't discuss it with him, he's going to keep saying it and you're going to keep those feelings inside. Good luck.
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