Posted by pinkeye on February 18, 2005, at 17:12:28
In reply to This mess, posted by messadivoce on February 18, 2005, at 16:48:25
Are you really in a position to handle this meeting with the VP and explaining everything without causing harm to your T etc? Whatever happened has happened. Are you strong enough to go and fight for your rights and explain the harm and get some justice now? If I were you, I probably would just leave things as they are, and try to find a new T and work with her instead of trying to sort out what really happened and who was responsible for the mess. I don't know if it is going to do any good for you trying to find out who exactly caused this mess.
If you say too much in the meeting and that causes harm to your T, then you will feel bad.. Also if in the meeting if it turns out that your T was the one who was responsible you will feel bad. Even if it turns out she was not responsible, you are probably not going to have her again as the T. So what do you think you will achieve by going into this and trying to find out? Instead a better thing would be to just let things as they are and accept and move on to another T.
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