Posted by Joslynn on March 22, 2005, at 10:58:12
In reply to Re: countertransference in therapist LONG, posted by Joslynn on March 22, 2005, at 10:51:29
OH, I read further and realized, you don't do in-person sessions with her, the phone sessions are the session, because you moved. Sorry I did not know that.
I still think that her boundary setting makes sense, but the timing and flip flopping would hurt me too.
I have idealized people in this position as well. The smallest things can feel huge. And in a way, it does bother me that some of them don't seem to really, truly be educated in the effect that their actions have on us.
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