Posted by NightStar72 on April 7, 2005, at 8:36:44
In reply to Re: Borderline, devaluating loved ones... » NightStar72, posted by alexandra_k on April 7, 2005, at 1:40:23
Thank you so so much, that is a start, he does from time to time put me on the spot asking what I like about him - here is what I come up with:
Ok, things I like:
1. I like his sense of humor, he is more able to live in the moment then me, and capable of making light of a situation when he puts his mind to it.
2. I like his sense of rightness, fairness in the world; he is always helping people out when he can in greater need then us.
3. I like that he is a very intelligent person and he strives to learn all of the time.
4. I like that he has a strong work ethic, and wants to be productive.
5. I like that he does not drink, and is a role model to me.Ok, things I dislike:
1. I dislike that he is secretive; he won’t always share how he is feeling with me.
2. I dislike that recently he does not tell me where he is going or gives me good bye kiss all the time like he use to. Or take initiative to tell me first that he loves me.
3. I dislike that I feel like he withholds his time with me, I actually feel like he avoids me and I am not important like I use to be. I use to be his baby angle.
4. I dislike that he don’t always introduce me to people he meets on the streets, he just ignores me sometimes in that respect, like I am not important enough.
5. I dislike that I involve myself with his interests, but he don't do the same for me.How is that???
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