Posted by fallsfall on April 8, 2005, at 21:41:22
In reply to I tried., posted by Dinah on April 8, 2005, at 21:24:35
> Well, I didn't tell him what I was thinking about this.
*** Why not?
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> But I did try telling him I was angry about his upcoming trip, even though I knew it was irrational. It didn't really go well.
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> Truth is, he really is too stressed right now to handle my anger - even a small smidgeon of it, or anything else heavy.
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> I guess we'd better stick to the easy stuff till he's feeling better.*** Dinah, it isn't your job to take care of him. If he is stressed that is *his* problem not yours. Does he know that you are tiptoeing around so as not to upset him?
This doesn't sound right at all...
And isn't he the therapist who teaches that people can get angry and the world won't end???
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