Posted by Dinah on April 8, 2005, at 22:26:45
In reply to bad outcome - please help!, posted by octavia on April 8, 2005, at 21:10:17
My experience has been along the lines of Fallsfalls. Earlier in my therapy, I probably made a lot of guesses as to what was going on, and my guesses probably were of the worst case variety.
I've found it really useful to hash these things out with my therapist (and mine actually nodded off once or twice). We had some major dustups, but it led to a stronger relationship overall.
If you think the relationship is worth fighting for, you might have to take the initiative by making yourself vulnerable to him. And sharing with him things like you shared in your post.
If there isn't enough good in the relationship to make that worthwhile, then it's completely different.
poster:Dinah
thread:481822
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