Posted by pinkeye on April 21, 2005, at 19:48:29
In reply to Re: Stressed so much » pinkeye, posted by Tamar on April 21, 2005, at 19:38:12
I would love to let him go back and I could continue to stay here on my own. I have given him several possible alternatives - boht of us taking contractors jobs and working only for a few months in a year here and spending the rest of the time with his parents in our country etc.. The studid guy won't listen.. and his mother on top of it. I hate my country's culture where the daughter in laws have to listen to every mother in law's fancy whims. I am in such a bad mood today. she is a pretty good woman, but has strange ideas and she interferes in our lives so much. And my husband won't stand against her wishes. She wants us both to be together. And because of her stupid wish I have to compromise on my job, my savings, my Green Card evertything. And I can't even stay in the city of my choice if I go back.. I have to move to the city where his parents are, and I have tos tay in the same house.. Can't imagine anything worse could happen. And she will interfere in every thing.. from the way I dress to where I work, and how I visit my parents.. She is just going to make my life pure hell.
Only reason I am sticking to this marriage is that my husband is basically a good guy. And I actually like my mother in law and father in law. Only wish that they have some more sense. And I am very scared of divorce and having to live by myself.
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