Posted by daisym on April 29, 2005, at 0:52:54
In reply to Re: Rescue Fantasy, posted by rubenstein on April 28, 2005, at 12:53:58
Rachel,
Do you think having the fantasy is crossing his boundaries? Or is it in the fantasy that you actually cross the boundary?
I think this is something we worry about, crossing that invisible line. But I read over and over again that it is up to the therapist to hold the boundaries and as clients we are "allowed" to push things a little -- it says a lot about our needs. I know not all therapists respond well to this.
Have you ever told your therapist about your fantasy?
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