Posted by Daisym on May 24, 2005, at 18:57:02
In reply to Re: Age states and attachment » daisym, posted by Dinah on May 24, 2005, at 1:39:36
I don't think I have any other option except to trust him. I'm being as brutally honest with him as I can make myself be, tossing out ideas half-baked, which I almost never do. He keeps asking the same hard question: "Why isn't it Ok for you to feel so strongly about me?" I have a million reasons and yet they all sound stupid. I know where this discussion is leading and that path is really scary.
In my attempt to define these feelings I said, "I don't think I'm falling in love with you..." And his response was, "what if you were? What would that mean?" Isn't this where he was supposed to just say, "good, because that is just sooo unacceptable." He just repeats that I can say anything and everything to him. He wants to hear it. And he won't run screaming from the room. I had to cover a grin, it made me think of you.
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