Posted by antigua on June 2, 2005, at 7:57:05
In reply to Today -- sorry, long, posted by Daisym on June 1, 2005, at 19:38:23
Geez, are the moons aligned or something? I'm facing a visit w/my mother this weekend in NY. (My father is dead, so like it--or not--I will never have the opportunity to resolve my csa directly w/him). I'm the perfect daughter to my mother; I've never mentioned the abuse to her, and actually I don't think I ever will (never say never though). In the past I would be the perfect daughter and then fall apart after I got him. I don't take it out on myself anymore because I know how damaging that has been and I also understand her better. But it has taken years to get to this point.
I've been thinking of just ditching the trip. It would be so much easier all around (except she'd be furious). Plus, my T is away on vacation for a few weeks! This is a true test.
Good luck with your family, too.
antigua
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