Posted by Tamar on June 21, 2005, at 18:54:35
In reply to Re: Very long, sorry., posted by Dinah on June 21, 2005, at 13:03:41
> I do now. (See post below.) Plus he was teasing me today. When I asked him if he minded that I cared about him so much, he said no and asked me if I minded that he cared about me so much. :) He's such a card.I'm so glad he's getting it right. It makes it all worthwhile.
> A fair number of people don't like me at all. Most of the people I know IRL in fact. Maybe it's that shorthand we were talking about in that other thread. My clothing choices are eccentric, my grooming is less than ideal, and I'm overweight. Added to a persistently unusual viewpoint, and I think people's shorthand doesn't lead to positive feelings towards me. :(
See, I find it hard to understand why people would dislike you based on your clothes or your weight. But maybe you're better off without people that shallow.
As for the persistently unusual viewpoint: that's one of the things I particularly like. I guess you're right - it's all about the shorthand.
> My husband also doesn't like me very much. But he doesn't think much of most people, so I figure that *is* his problem. He doesn't even admire our delightful son as much as any sane person would!
Gosh. Is that because of the relationship trough, or do you feel your husband generally doesn't like you much?
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