Posted by pinkeye on July 1, 2005, at 13:22:40
In reply to Re: Maybe all along I have been really stupid » pinkeye, posted by cricket2 on July 1, 2005, at 12:45:18
Thanks Cricket.
My current T knows I like her a lot and I respect her and have her in high regards. Just that she is a woman, and she has been cautious from the beginning to not let me form any attachment to her and she has said so as well (she remains blank, she hasn't given me any information about herself.. I don't know her age, I don't know if she is married, I don't know anything about her). And I don't ask also. So it has been pretty much agreed from the beginning between us that I would not form any bond with her. Especially she knows the trauma that I went through with my ex T.. so she doesn't think it is good for me either. And I always have spoken to her of moving to India in the recent times anyway.
But she knows I really consider her very professional, and exceptionally talented and skillful. And I told her I really like her as a professional a lot, and I am glad that I worked with her, but just becuase she is a woman, I don't feel the intense longing - I have never felt that kind of intense longing with any woman in my life. So I am sure she is not hurt.
I think you need to be direct with your T. They can handle it.
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