Posted by happyflower on July 2, 2005, at 12:25:11
In reply to Re: I quit therapy today, posted by 10derHeart on July 1, 2005, at 22:50:50
> I echo what Voce said. IF you do decide to stop (and I think I'm hearing that you don't really want that...) >
You are right I really don't want to quit, I overreacted. I hope he will take me back. I would be really sad, if he deceides I am too much of a pain.
> You must feel so bad, though. Mad and confused and silly and resentful you have to go through this... (((hf))) let us help through the weekend,okay?
Yes, you said my feelings exactly. It kinda makes me crazy that I have to have some responsibilty with me and my T's relationship with all the other stuff I have to deal with. But I guess this is like a "practice realationship", so I hope the fact that I have appolized, it means that I am not a complete jerk.
> But I wonder if this might turn out to be a HUGE step in moving therapy forward. Can't pin it down, but something about the tone of your first post made me feel like there's something underneath here, something important from RL to hash out...not to mention he HASN't given you enough justification for the "liar" thing.
I think you might be right, I don't know what, but I do think you are on to something. Usually I make big strides in therapy after I have a fall out. I still think he shouldn't ever tell a client he is a good liar though. I think he realizes maybe it was a big mistake, because look how I reacted. I bet we will think twice before he ever says that again! lol> I'll bet the phone call had other stuff we can't imagine going on before and after it for him, too.
Yup, I can imagine him saying "up yours lady" when he got my message. I told him that he let me down. He won't admit I pissed him off or made him feel bad, but you know it does happen. They aren't invensible against their own feelings. I know he really like me, and I know he really wants to help me, but sometimes I must make him shake his head and say "What the ?" lol
> Because isn't him being short, cold or anything like it out of whack for his demeanor as your T.?
Yes, he normally keeps his conversations business like and short on the phone, but this time it seemed like he took what I said personally. But normally he doesn't act cold to my calls. He told me I could call whenever I really needed to talk to him, so I know he isn't upset that I called him. I have even asked him this before, and he said not to worry about it, it is his job.> .. have hope...I do ! :-)
Thanks fo your hope, and support. I love that way you write things, it is like it comes straight from your heart!. Thanks!
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