Posted by damos on July 11, 2005, at 22:27:14
In reply to I Feel Like a Slut, posted by Anon2005 on July 8, 2005, at 16:08:15
Hi Anon,
I'm a man and it hurts me to hear a woman refer to herself in such a way. In my eyes you are nothing of the sort. Just all too painfully human it would seem, and BPD and hypomania wouldn't be helping much either.
Please don't judge yourself by the beliefs, behaviours and lives of others. Simply being able to live with oursleves is enough for any of us.
I'm nearly 41 years old and I long for physical contact with another person but the thought of it confuses and terrifies me cause I don't understand physicality and emotional intimacy the least little bit, and can't find a way to love myself enough to ever hope to attract the love I seek. So please don't be so hard on yourself because I don't believe you're alone in the way you feel.
I'm sorry you were abused and hope that a truer gentler love finds it's way to you soon
poster:damos
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