Posted by Jen Star on July 13, 2005, at 15:33:10
In reply to Re: Always having to deal with people much above me!! » Jen Star, posted by pinkeye on July 13, 2005, at 14:01:57
hi Pinkeye,
the more I hear about your ex-T, the less impressed with him I get. From what you've written -- the bits and pieces throughout your posts -- he sounds vain, arrogant, concerned with social standing, abusive of his powers, careless with your feelings, and half-hearted at treatment. He also sounds unprofessional, because he made comments about other people he was seeing. Even your current T agreed that he wasn't the best@!A T should never make you feel like a 2nd-class citizen. If he/she does that, he/she is no good. I firmly believe that. Your ex-T may be important and from a big family, but I think he sucks at therapy! Just goes to show...sometimes the big degrees and big names don't mean beans when it comes to getting the job done. :)
I'm sorry he was so disrespectful to you, and didn't treat you the way he should have. I hope you can see that it didn't have much to do with YOU, but had everything to do with HIM and his neuroses and his complications.
I'm sorry if I seem harsh on him. I know you fluctuate between admiration and anger for him, and the last thing I want to do is hurt you by saying all this. But honestly I don't think he was acting well and doing a good job for you. You deserve much better, and so do his other patients!
take care!
JenStar
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