Posted by rabidreader on October 10, 2005, at 18:47:52
In reply to Re: Thanks all.. » rabidreader, posted by orchid on October 10, 2005, at 18:37:28
I know what you mean when you say it helped you, at first, to grow. For me, I used my deep attraction to my T as a motivator in therapy. I wanted him to be proud of me and to notice me. That actually worked all the way up until the time he told me he would have to be leaving.
I was a coward--I didn't tell my T of my feelings until he told me he was leaving. Even then, I didn't tell him how obsessed, how in love, I had become. I just didn't have the balls. Did you ever tell your T about your feelings? I believe from your messages that you are no longer with this T. Are you now with a female?
Another, extra, hug for you, because I know how hard this whole ordeal can be! We can help keep each other strong here on this board!
(((((orchid)))))
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