Posted by happyflower on October 15, 2005, at 23:02:35
In reply to Re: Interesting thought about my T today » happyflower, posted by daisym on October 15, 2005, at 22:45:28
> Just an observation: this is the second post where you refer to your therapist as a "normal guy." It makes me wonder if you are resisting feelings for him, thinking he is special, etc. I may be all wet. It isn't that I think you should have these feelings, it just feels a little like you want to push away any idealization that often happens.
I find this very interesting on what you are saying. I have feeling for him as a person, he is sweet kind man who makes me laugh, but I am now getting some of this from other people now that I am out and about in the public.
He has worked hard on me with me by not letting me put him up on a pedstal. He shows me over and over again just how normal he is. I think this might be why he discloses a lot to me about himself, positive stuff and not so perfect stuff.
I guess I just feel like my feelings about him as a therapist has come full circle. First he thought I put him on a pedistal, then he thought I as critical of him, then I think he thought he was VERY special to me in my eyes. We touched on this a little in my last session. I told him how unimpressed I am with him now. He laughed so hard, I thought he was going to fall out of the chair. LOL> I prefer to think my therapist is magic. And that way I can get mad at him when he won't wave his wand and make things all better.
Well I guess my T already preformed his magic on me! :) Me all better now! LOL
> And what do you mean he was at a football game? You mean he doesn't live in his office with a hot plate and murphy bed waiting for your next session?! I refuse to believe it.Sorry, your are right, he lives in his office just thinking about me and how he is going to make my life better! LOL (feel better, now, sorry to scare you like that :) )
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