Posted by Dinah on November 4, 2005, at 20:15:30
In reply to Re: I probably can, actually, posted by gardenergirl on November 4, 2005, at 16:38:58
My mother said she'd be delighted to stay as long as I like at our house. She hasn't seen much of my son since Daddy died, she said. So unless something comes up, it's a double session.
My grandmother in law sounds like she's not in too bad shape, though it's hard to tell because my husband hasn't spoken to anyone in authority yet. We are going to make moving her closer a priority, though how or where we can't begin to fathom.
And my therapist told me as much of his plans as he knows (which isn't all that much), so I don't have to wonder till Sunday. It's not good news. It looks like they'll remain in their new location, and his realistic ability to see me depends on what he chooses to do for a living, although he swears he has no intention of terminating me.
I hate Katrina.
Still, this way is better. My attachment can die a slow boring death, which has got to be better than a sudden ripping away. I don't know that it can stand up to long long car drives, anxiety and fear of loss, and all those things that will undermine the sense of safety that was the basis for the attachment to begin with.
But I think another therapist isn't the answer. The other two have seemed totally irrelevant. I'll just go it alone, with dependence on Risperdal. At least Risperdal isn't going to abandon me.
poster:Dinah
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